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You will get more interest and responses here than all paid dating sites combined!Making out drunkenly with straight also-drunk frat boys, sex in the library with townies, trips to the nearest big city: either do those things or sit with your sexual feelings, like many of us had our entire lives. There was no signal, just the way we looked at one another. I would go into the little bathroom building, like the one in Maine.All that energy and nowhere to put it, no one to share it with. At the urinals, when the bathroom was mostly empty, we could stand side by side and reach over to each other.There was no way to meet anyone, or if there was, it felt forced, somehow.Maybe I could go on dates with a few guys who were out like me, but I didn’t really want to go on dates, so it would’ve been dishonest.